13. Excellent Personality Development Ideas.
1. Know Ownself
2. Discover Your Strengths and Weaknesses
3. Practice Your Skills of Positive Thinking
4. Identify Your Own Fear and Overcome it
5. Increase Your Confidence Level
6. Be Social
7. Try To Be Humorous and Funny
8. Practise Meditation
9. Be Yourself – (Your “BEST” Self)
10. Have Your Own Opinion
11. Learn to Love and Understand Others
12. Learn to Forgive Others
13. Be a Better Listener
What is Personality Development? Do You Know?
Every human being has the urge to improve themselves and become a better person for themselves and the world. This is completely natural because it is the essence of life.
The same force which makes the seed burst out from the ground and grow into a tree is the force that makes us do something better or become someone better.
This is the essence of our Spirit, and this Spirit (God, the Universe, Matrix, etc.) is always for expansion and never for disintegration. If you run, you want to run faster, if you sing well, you want to sing even better, if you earn a good amount of money you want to earn even more, and so on.
No matter how old or young you are, there is always a space & time for improvement. In the following text, you’ll discover some excellent personality improvement tips, so read carefully and put this valuable advice into action in your life.
13. Excellent Personality Development Ideas.
1. Know Ownself.
Well, I said, this is me – while pointing at my body. No, he said… that is just your body… You never hear body is going to take a walk today, or body is going to eat pizza… No, we say I am going to take a walk and I’ll eat pizza… This made perfect sense to me! I am not my body, and neither are you!
Well, who am I? Who are you? Who are we? Here are your answer Let's see
We are spiritual beings living in a physical body. We have been gifted with an intellect that represents the conscious part of our mind. We have the ability to consciously think, and we all are expressions of the same power. Every religion teaches us that. we might say, I’m atheist, I don’t believe in God.
Then every science teaches us that… Today thoughts and emotions can be measured with special devices. We (Spirit) can be seen on a special device that shows the aura coming out from our body in different colors. We are spiritual creatures, vibrating at a frequency that cannot be seen with our eyes, the same way, we can’t see the air but we know that it is there and that we breathe it!
By understanding how to operate with our thoughts or better yet – with our conscious (intellectual) and subconscious mind (spirit – which penetrates all time and space, it’s in me, it’s in you, it’s in everything), we can change anything we want in our life.
So the first thing is to understand that we are not physical. we are much more than that, and the power that we possess is phenomenal.
Ask yourself, where do your thoughts come from? Do they exist? You can’t see them… But wait a minute, you are talking to yourself… is this real? You are reading this text at this very moment and every word and sentence produces a specific image that you see on the screen of your mind. Is all of this real?
When I say “rabbit”, immediately, a picture of a rabbit is shown on the screen of your mind. When you read “elephant”, a gigantic elephant's picture is immediately projected in your mind.
But you know, there is no rabbit, and there is no elephant in the outer world… It’s just your imagination and the image stored in the memory of your subconscious that pops out when you see, read or hear these words.
However, your imagination is real, all your thoughts are real for your subconscious mind! Every single thought that you think, is real, it is very real, and it is a subject that unfortunately has been pushed away with social norms and cultural traditions. We rarely ever ask the actual questions, instead, we occupy ourselves with meaningless things at the same time forgetting to live our life.
So, study Ownself, study the conscious and subconscious mind, and study the laws of the universe. This is the first step in developing my personality.
2. Discover Your Strengths and Weaknesses.
How do you feel when you think of yourself? Is the first feeling that comes good or bad? What is your biggest positive side? What is your weakest point?
If you try to analyze yourself better, you will discover that we are operated by our own habits. Almost everything we do is habitual. Try to identify your habits including your way of thinking. It is very important that you eliminate your weaknesses – meaning to improve in those areas, or at least neutralize them. Find your strengths and make them even stronger.
Know yourself… not what color or meal you prefer, what is your favorite hobby or sport, but who you actually are, what are your deepest beliefs, and what are your good and bad habits.
For example… You might find out that you often get angry, or that you are getting nervous when talking to strangers, etc. Work on your weak points, discover some anger management techniques, meditate and increase your self-confidence.
You might also find out that you are very good at selling or marketing. Your job is to improve these skills and make them even better. Improve your selling abilities, even more, learn how to communicate and market to others even better. (Note:- these are just random examples… there are literally thousands of personality traits that you can analyze and very likely this example does not suit you – find out your own unique personality traits)
You get the point… The world loves stable, self-confident people that are good at something and people with hardly any weaknesses. Nobody is perfect, but the winners always are striving for perfection, and by reading this text and this website that’s what you are – A Winner!
You are trying to improve yourself, you are seeking ways to overcome problems and obstacles, and you will succeed, you have to!
3. Practice Your Skills of Positive Thinking.
You start to attract only positive things in your life…. What actually happens is that your vibration changes and you start to attract what corresponds with your frequency! This is an actual skill that you can develop with practice, so keep that smile glowing and those positive thoughts rolling, and you will find that this world is a much better place to live in!
4. Identify your Own Fear and Overcome it.
Fear is our biggest enemy that ever has, and that ever will exist in our life… Have you ever passed an opportunity just because you were scared? Have you ever let fear stop you from doing something?
Well, you see if you did and if you keep doing this, it will become a habit and you don’t want that… To have feared as a habit it’s the worst thing that can happen to a person, your personality just starts sinking, your self-esteem vanishes, anxiety, and depression start to occur.
Believe me, failure is way better than not trying. As the saying goes “You will never know if you never try”, you should never doubt your capabilities and always try to give the best of you. Try to identify your hidden fears and eliminate them from your life. Focus on your goals and don’t let other people’s opinions let you down!
Remember you’re the one trying, not them, and that’s why you will succeed. You may not do everything from the first try but you shouldn’t let that be the reason you shouldn’t keep on trying.
Here are some common fear types to look for:
- Fear of poverty
- Fear of criticism
- Fear of ill health
- Fear of change
- Fear of losing love
- Fear of death
- Fear of ___________(put your own).
Find them and eliminate them by accepting the worst scenarios and saying to yourself that you will try to do better. Just accept that you might be poor but say that you will give all you have got to become rich. Do the same with all the other fears that you identify in yourself.
5. Increase Your Confidence Level.
Always encourage yourself to do better than you are doing. Find ways to increase your self-esteem, improve, and become the better person that you wish to be.
Read powerful affirmations, meditate daily, exercise regularly, and study as much as you can, you sure will increase your confidence.
6. Be Social.
Look for opportunities, go to different events, participate in social gatherings and be proactive, soon you will build your identity and reputation.
7. Try To Be Humorous and Funny.
Try to notice only good things in others and approach life from a more optimistic point! Do not judge and criticize, do not always seriously look into stuff, instead, try to smile as much as you can.
8. Practise Meditation.
I am sharing one method of meditation with you which is called Tratak.
9. Be Yourself – (Your “BEST” Self).
Some people try to fit in other groups in which they do not belong. Others try masking their personalities and imitating somebody else.
No, be unique, respect yourself, understand that even the smallest stones of all the sandy beaches in the world – ARE NOT THE SAME! There’s not a single one alike you know… Everything is unique!
The whole universe is made this way, and you and I are part of it, so do not try to break this great law. Stay unique and learn to love and accept yourself the way you are.
10. Have Your Own Opinion.
Develop your attitude and never be shy to share an opinion even if it may start a conflict. Be self-confident and respect yourself.
11. Learn to Love and Understand Others.
That’s why we must understand that by being hateful and negative, not only do we harm others, but we do this to ourselves as well. Actually, we suffer the most from this negative attitude.
That is why we should learn how to forgive, understand and love people the way they are, accept the things that we cannot change, instead, work only on ourselves.
12. Learn to Forgive Others.
Search only for good things in every situation and in every person you meet and try to control your emotions and be positive.
13. Be a Better Listener.
Being a better listener makes you have a more likable personality. It is the foundation for effective communication and it can be mastered like all other life skills.
It will help you become more aware of the situation with whoever you are talking to. This can have a very positive impact on your relationships with other people and that is always what highly successful people are doing.
When you are interacting with other individuals, don’t listen for the intent to reply, listen to understand and feel the message that other people are intuitively trying to send.
Respect each individual you are in contact with and treat them as you would yourself. It sure will change your life for the best.
Some Extra Hacks For Better Result.
The Magnitude of Gratitude.
Expand and keep expanding this list for as much as you can. Notice how all these great things about you and your life make you feel, and concentrate on that feeling.
Read this list every day at least 2 times! It’s the best right after waking up in the morning and at night before you go to bed. If you keep doing this long enough, your vibration will change so much, you will be a new person!
Conclusion.
You should know that there are literally hundreds of personality development tips that can be used to improve your life. In this text, we tried to touch on a few important and essential tips.
However, the following is the main message that you must understand and internalize:
Never stop learning and improving yourself! Never give up regardless of problems and obstacles, and always respect and believe in yourself! You are the only creator of your destiny so keep trying and moving onward. Soon, your life will be completely changed and you will live a wonderful, happy, joyful, and fulfilled life.
Remember, the only person who fails in life is the one who never tries or quits after trying!
And do not forget, ACTION is the key! Do not just “read” these personality development tips. Go on and take action… Work on each one at a time, and do everything you can do to improve yourself.
Because you are the author of your story.
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